Relationships are not always comfortable and happy. There will come a time where almost every day is just a routine—no sparks and worst, no sex life. However, you can take charge to keep your relationship happy and healthy. A woman like you should also need to move since a relationship should be give-and-take.

You can’t expect him to always make an effort just to make you happy. Know, he’s just a human, and he also has individual needs, just like you. Don’t worry; to help you do your part, below are five easy ways to do it for your man.

Initiate Sex

Sex is not necessary for a relationship to grow, but it can be crucial to some, especially men. It can also be an opportunity for you to bond with him, to show your love and affection. We have a stereotype in our society that men are always the ones who should initiate sex.

However, women may be missing a big part of that. The truth is, men want to feel loved and desired. They want their female partner to initiate sex, give them compliments, flirt, and seduce them. Sadly, men know that their female partner does not know about this desire because of this stereotype.

You can use sex toys like masturbators as a starter as a way to initiate sex. So if you want your man to fall in love with you forever, then spice up your relationship.

Know His Love Language

A lot of relationships got destroyed for superficial reasons. A pastor and a talk show host, Gary Chapman wrote a book about The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate. The book talks about how you can understand your partner by identifying their love language.

These five languages are words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch. Now, try to think of what he usually likes to do with you. Is he getting excited and happy every time he sees you? Does he like touching you, or maybe he gets excited every time you give him something? Once you identify what his love language is, show it to him most of the time.

Set Boundaries

All of us have personal boundaries on what makes us feel safe and comfortable. It is also essential for him that you respect that boundary. You are not always his priority, that is a fact. Give him some time to breathe and to be himself. Make sure to know your boundaries and learn to respect that, do not take it away from him.

It is a good practice for both of you. You will learn to love yourself when you give yourself time to explore and have fun on your own. Men don’t want to be suppressed, so give him the time he needs and do your own thing as well. If you don’t see each other often, it will make him miss you, and you’ll surely love to be missed by him.

Support Him

Having a loving partner who got your back is a great thing about being in a healthy relationship. Men don’t usually take the risk of doing something so if he does, make sure to support him. Try to be protective but not overly possessive. Encourage him to spend time with his friends and family.

Push him to work on their personal goals and give him a life outside your relationship. Don’t make him your world and vice versa. Don’t change him, instead let him learn from his mistake and watch him change on his own. These things are not easy to do, especially for women but if you want him to fall in love with you deeply, show him the love he deserves.

Brag Him To Other People

Men would like to know they’ve got what it takes. They want to see that they have the manhood, knowledge, and wisdom to be a man you desire to have. Let your man know that you trust him and are proud to have him as your partner in life.

Openly proclaim to everyone the pride and appreciation that you feel towards your man. Pay attention to the smile on his face when you are doing so. It’s going to make him light up.

Takeaway

There you have it! These are the five ways you can do to keep him in love with you forever. However, it is essential that you still know your worth as a woman. It is good that you are also doing your part as his partner, which will surely make him love you. But the best way to make any man want you is when they see that you love yourself and are independent.